"Laziness appears where the lost interest in life" - has made a friend of mine. And I suddenly realized that she was right. Right to a hundred, if not thousand percent! It is useless to seek new ways of self-motivation ambien, try to imagine new techniques and experimenting with incentives until we look at life through the murky glass, huddled in a rickety house of everyday life.
We hope that by initiating the changes that we are flourishing life colors and return the lost taste for life. But no. Change is not initiated, laziness and thriving willpower melting before our eyes. We respect ourselves less, we believe in our strength and all rarely try to change something. To once again did not face his own weakness.
Laziness - that she was guilty of all our misfortunes. So many people think. So I thought I did. Each time trying to overcome its internal resistance, and once again suffering a crushing defeat I'm more convinced of his own weakness. In the failure to follow up and started to lack of willpower. (And when it came to the interests of friends or a job - will power appeared from somewhere and has demonstrated remarkable success).
Word of friends in an instant put in place the missing puzzle. Of course, not laziness is the root cause. Loss of interest in life - that's my main problem.
Artificial attempts to stimulate the desire scrolling fashion magazines and watching sketches of the lives of stars poor substitute in comparison with the emotions that a child gave me a tattered book of adventure and magic. Here it is real life - it seemed to me then, and I was looking forward to when I grow up and be able to get into this exciting adult world.
I grew up - and the world was different. Maybe by the time I lost something very important - themselves.
Reading the great book of Julia Cameron "The Way of the artist" I tried to do a simple exercise, whose task is to define what is interesting that the creative genius of liberation and the child who sits in each of us. The task was simple: do not hesitate to write a quick 10 lessons or actions that seem fun and that we would have decided if it was allowed to us.
Simple question, is not it? And you know, but the banal travel (in a comfortable cabin, of course, but not at the helm of a pirate ship, as dreamed as a child) I do not want to. My inner child is simply not withdrawn,
Years of ignoring the inner creator did their job. He - no, do not want to believe that he died - just fell asleep. Or hid, fearing that his next impulse will be trampled reasonable judgments unhappy adults.
Where can I get the energy, strength and desire, if the inner well of happiness is blocked? If we look for answers in books, blogs, religion - or whatever just not himself.We have forgotten how to hear yourself, trust yourself and to love.We have forgotten how to take risks because the risk for an alien purpose is more like a leap into the abyss. And we do not want to jump over it, because deep down we know that no formal attainment will not give us the necessary emotions. Do not give the joy of life and happiness.
The only way to forget about laziness - to wake a child, give him something that was missing all these years - love, attention and support. Not everyone will soon reach. Someone help recall forgotten sensations favorite children's classes - long live the paintball, rope training, dancing for seniors and the creative studio for adults. Someone may decide to travel to countries which are read in adventure novels. Each of us will have his way. But sure, this way everyone will be able to pass through, because only he is real.Because the only way to live, opening the heart of the beautiful and happily accepting the unknown.
Let all of us who tried unsuccessfully to change their lives for one year leave these attempts. Let us cast off this weight loser and just give up the process of self-discovery. I'm sure even the busiest people can work to wrest the television several hours a day for creativity loneliness , walking, communicating with school friends (namely with the school - they not only bring us back to childhood, but also will save the discussion of business topics).
Let us write blogs, share discoveries and comment. Let's just live, without thinking how we became successful in the eyes of others.Let's learn to live with feelings rather than reason (in his spare time of course), let's make crazy things and experimenting. With his looks, his home and his life.
A goal - albeit a little wait. Very soon we will be ready to go back to their own choice. But it will be a sincere and genuine choice. The choice of which does not require us to show the wonders of willpower and laziness to fight, but he will give strength and energy to overcome the Way. Because it will be our path, our choices and our lives.
